tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.comments2010-03-11T09:11:43.468-05:00Tee aka The Diva's Thoughtshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177643214210147206divateesthoughts@hotmail.comBlogger539125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-70201034388172845322010-03-11T09:11:43.458-05:002010-03-11T09:11:43.458-05:00My husband doesn&#39;t really read his Facebook page but if he does, I always try to be respectful that he wouldn&#39;t be ticked at what I say.<br /><br />I&#39;m FB friends with a couple of ex&#39;s so always try to be careful. :)Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04135190793124857820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-18223004720394482842010-03-11T08:18:26.065-05:002010-03-11T08:18:26.065-05:00I don&#39;t know.<br /><br />Please have all these women post really really inappropriate things on my FB page with photos and email addresses and let&#39;s see what happens!<br /><br />I&#39;m all about the science.Moooooog35http://www.blogger.com/profile/13283153659252782869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-29044687557759656682010-03-11T02:34:35.906-05:002010-03-11T02:34:35.906-05:00I don&#39;t stalk the hubby. I had a friend request from one of his old girlfriends, which I thought was weird at first but now realize it was actually a smart thing for her to do. I have no issues with him keeping in touch with people from his past and she just sent me a message that she has no other motive than to do just that. By us both being friends, I can view all correspondence-- if I wanted to.imbeingheldhostagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00771374087307254969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-79916881159085135542010-03-10T20:14:36.293-05:002010-03-10T20:14:36.293-05:00I just had this conversation with a friend of mine. Facebook can break up relationships if the people using them are not careful to make sure they are not using it to reconnect with long losts loves or meet new people. <br /><br />I wouldn&#39;t monitor my man&#39;s Facebook page but if he goes to it while we&#39;re in the same room, I sure will be looking over his shoulder. Now we would have a problem, if he didn&#39;t want to add me as a friend.<br /><br />My last boyfriend insisted that I update my status to in a relationship; however the first time he made me mad, I changed it back to single. LOLConfessionsofaSBWhttp://confessionofasingleblackwoman.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-49911377081743598432010-03-10T16:58:15.430-05:002010-03-10T16:58:15.430-05:00Stalking the FB page of your lover, it&#39;s what we have to do!<br /><br />SecretiaSecretiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17918386483936030503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-37539031900531242462010-03-10T16:38:57.143-05:002010-03-10T16:38:57.143-05:00I had to make myself stop looking at his FB friends (he&#39;s only got 50 thank God) and trying to figure out if he is now or in the future will cheat on me with one of them!<br /><br />Yeah, NO TRUST. And justifiably so!Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01688319872727995846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-5567131291180329972010-03-10T15:28:26.007-05:002010-03-10T15:28:26.007-05:00Yes and no...I never what to know the truth...lie to meJust telling it like it ishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04090846611105025162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-66297478825901289892010-03-10T13:45:08.089-05:002010-03-10T13:45:08.089-05:00The Husband and I both know where our hearts are. He also knows that I am a harmless flirt. I think as long as 2 people trust each other, it shouldn&#39;t be a big deal!The Dishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03627205006501301967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-55154988700013971542010-03-10T13:22:42.958-05:002010-03-10T13:22:42.958-05:00I hide my relationship status. Honestly, I don&#39;t think the world of high school friends and people I&#39;ve met a few times need to know if and who I&#39;m dating. Or not dating.<br />However, my boyfriend recently changed his relationship status to &quot;it&#39;s complicated&quot;. When I got the notification to &quot;accept&quot; this new status, I just deleted the email. He can change his status to whatever he&#39;s comfortable with. And I only look at his page every few days, or if one of my friends tells me he&#39;s making funny comments somewhere.<br />This leads me to believe that I&#39;m just not that into him. Ugh, boys. They&#39;re too much work.The Ambiguous Blobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07167553555513633437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-75201746561913171052010-03-10T12:57:51.155-05:002010-03-10T12:57:51.155-05:00I&#39;ve never been on Facebook. I&#39;ve been on MySpace, and my ex got his thong in a knot over something I said after we broke up. He thought I was embarrassing him, and he had people looking out for him and reading his page.<br /><br />I didn&#39;t even go into specifics in my comment. I just hinted and he was being a douche about it.<br /><br />Glad I&#39;m not up there anymore either.Senoritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13075972193214414769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-65749588620227793582010-03-10T12:31:49.353-05:002010-03-10T12:31:49.353-05:00Well you can be on FB without putting any of that info on there. I have my relationship as COMPLICATED. The only one that ever commented on it was my daughter. Which I thought was funny since she knows exactly how my relationship is with her father. Also I only list my maiden name since that is the only name my classmates would know.Queen-Size funny bonehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14134308455271808356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-12148453973651288672010-03-10T12:03:06.023-05:002010-03-10T12:03:06.023-05:00If there are insecurities in the realtionship, then there will be issues...My boo is on my FB and my status still reads &quot;single&quot; and he doesnt have a problem with it and has never mentioned it...I cant say that I even went to his page yet...JStarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17099140114891597338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-77999305384594029512010-03-10T11:47:52.597-05:002010-03-10T11:47:52.597-05:00Really? Where is the trust? I am never going to be mad about something someone posts on my boyfriend&#39;s facebook wall. I know I am not jealous type of person, but why would anyone go looking for something to fight about or be jealous about??<br /><br />When an ex changed his FB status to in a relationship with someone else, it stung a bit. But I just blocked his status updates so it wasn&#39;t in my face.Karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14978375225313974459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-426128348500128242010-03-10T11:37:09.098-05:002010-03-10T11:37:09.098-05:00Your timing is impecable.<br /><br />I&#39;m not technically in a relationship, but just last week PS asked me to be his friend on fb, I agreed, with the pre requisite that he not talk about anything &#39;personl&#39;. He understood.<br /><br />My current thing told me about the convo&#39;s on his fb page before I ever found them.<br /><br />I think if your not doing anything shady, you have nothing to worry about and if you tell your S/O upfront about ppl and your pasts w/ them it&#39;s all good.<br /><br />I&#39;ll never take down my fb page, not even if it gets me in hot water from time to time. I&#39;m not doing anything wrong.<br /><br />Why aren&#39;t we friends on FB? Email me privately if you want to be.shortyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09646106228386001678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-22310068208941347022010-03-09T18:41:58.437-05:002010-03-09T18:41:58.437-05:00Big hugs!Freckle Face Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13324960438835000817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-85731973422235805612010-03-09T15:04:41.116-05:002010-03-09T15:04:41.116-05:00Oh, love. I am so, so sorry. The interwebs, we are here for you. ((hugs))LiLuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-42679153046100018202010-03-09T15:04:11.393-05:002010-03-09T15:04:11.393-05:00Oh man... I am SO SO sorry... All I have to say is that I&#39;ve been there with both of my parents... I do understand your hurt... and your loss... again, I am so sorry... take your time in healing... the hurt doesn&#39;t go away easily...<br /><br />jimRed Shoeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01919277206516592912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-44376248385872416222010-03-09T13:15:42.608-05:002010-03-09T13:15:42.608-05:00Tee I can&#39;t even image what you have been through. Hugs to you and praying for you through this tough time.Tonyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15816260131470363977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-10817203416264399552010-03-09T06:35:55.380-05:002010-03-09T06:35:55.380-05:00Sorry to hear that, Tee.<br /><br />Nothing much has been happening here except the usual ruptured vetebrae and spinal surgery and - OH! - we had pasta last night.<br /><br />Best wishes to you.Moooooog35http://www.blogger.com/profile/13283153659252782869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-15679522462763905282010-03-09T01:09:05.050-05:002010-03-09T01:09:05.050-05:00Oh my! I know, all too well from first-hand experience how difficult a time this was, is and will continue to be for you. Just remember one thing -there is no timetable, carved in stone, that says exactly how long we must/should grieve when a loss has come into our lives. Some can just seem to walk away and start over immediately while for others, it never seems to come about and the majority scramble around in the middle ground. I lost my Mom 30 years ago this past October and while I rationalized at the time it was for the best as cancer had ravaged her totally, there is still that empty place, that spot in one&#39;s life that can never be filled.<br />My thoughts and prayers go out for you, for your family, as you deal with this loss.Jenihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16425701332785470116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-30236719566074295892010-03-08T21:02:49.566-05:002010-03-08T21:02:49.566-05:00I&#39;m so sorry to hear this news. Take all the time you need, I can&#39;t imagine going through this. ((((hugs))))Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10692144543529730354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-17450365673489178622010-03-08T19:57:50.899-05:002010-03-08T19:57:50.899-05:00Oh its titled &quot;I am here&quot; :)JStarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17099140114891597338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-68161609881568874302010-03-08T19:56:35.778-05:002010-03-08T19:56:35.778-05:00I am sooo sorry to hear...My last few postings may help in this time...I wrote this awhile back for someone in sorrow...I now dedicate this to you...<br /><br />I know you are in a lot of pain right now<br /><br />I want you to know that I am here for you always<br /><br />I can be your shoulder if you should allow<br /><br />I am willing to help you through these rough days<br /><br />Words are not always needed to make your heart heal<br /><br />Just know whatever you need, I am here<br /><br />My heart is breaking wanting to take away the pain you feel<br /><br />Although I know your pain will never truly disappear<br /><br />This hurt will get easier with time<br /><br />God’s will we may not always understand<br /><br />Or have His reasoning’s defined<br /><br />Just remember I am always here extending my handJStarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17099140114891597338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-21673579471933125072010-03-08T19:45:18.046-05:002010-03-08T19:45:18.046-05:00Diva, wishing you the best. I know this cannot be easy for you and in fact the most hardest thing you can possibly go thru. So i just wanted to let you know you are in my prayers, my heart and i only wish you the best. Be strong and hold your mother&#39;s memory close to your heart. Don&#39;t worry about coming back to us until you are ready. Really luv, take care of you.Mizrepresenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02992754393960138393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1335680391050121939.post-45134713506788723602010-03-08T18:06:58.991-05:002010-03-08T18:06:58.991-05:00my condolences to you and your family.laughing808http://www.blogger.com/profile/17401399607667620034noreply@blogger.com